After a loved one has passed away, you may have to take on a wide variety of responsibilities that you would never choose for yourself. When that includes planning the funeral and burial of the loved one, you may then have to handle such delicate things as turning down suggestions about what to include on the headstone. When a family member makes a well-meaning request that you cannot honor, here are some ways that you can sensitively turn them down.…
As you approach your later years and begin thinking about your will, you might also begin to wonder about having a funeral. While many people wish to be remembered in this manner, others forgo having a funeral service entirely. It’s easy to think about not having a funeral because you feel that attending your service would be a hassle for people. If you’re leaning toward not having any type of event in your honor, it’s useful to understand some reasons that you may wish to reconsider.…
When you make the decision to preplan your funeral, a big advantage to doing so is that you can ensure that every element of the service is in alignment with your values. If you’re someone who has made sure to be environmentally responsible throughout your life, it makes sense to ensure that your funeral service follows by “green” principles. You should talk to the funeral home director about the green elements of cremation, as there are many to consider.…
